Friday, December 30, 2016

What should I do if I cheated on a technical phone interview and got an offer?

They will not sue you and this won't ruin your life. They will likely (but not necessarily) revoke your offer though.

As for other people saying that this isn't cheating, but rather you just demonstrated that you can solve business problems efficiently: Please don't listen to their justifications. You seem like an otherwise honest person, or at least someone who strives to be that way. Don't let them throw you off your ethical track.

If the rules of the interview -- implicit or explicit -- were that you can't look up things during the interview, then you cheated. Period.

Of course, in the business world, you can use Google. But interviewers don't ask you a question to figure out if you could solve this question in the real world. They ask you to derive some information about you (your depth of knowledge, your problem solving skills, etc). From there, they make a guess at your ability to do the work.

You cheated. You gave them a false impression of your skills because you broke the rules.

Nothing will ever remove the fact that you cheated. It already happened. The only thing you can change is whether you got your job by cheating.

The question is: Do you want this new job so badly that you're willing to sit with the knowledge for the rest of your life that you kicked off your career and got ahead with dishonesty? From what you said, I believe that you're a generally honest person (perhaps even exceptionally honest) who made a mistake. I'd worry that you'd end up being pretty unhappy at this company as you might never really feel right in the role.

The company might still decide to take you if you confess. Maybe. Or maybe they'll decide to just reinterview you. Or maybe you'll wind up somewhere else in the end. None of these are ideal situations, but at least you will have no longer gotten ahead via dishonesty.

If you do confess, I wouldn't use the word "cheating." I would just describe the situation honestly:

Although I'm really excited about the opportunities at <company>, I wanted to be honest about my interviews.

While the interviewers asked me questions, I looked up answers online. I feel that this might have been a key factor in the offer decisions and I feel pretty uncomfortable about this at an ethical level. I worry that my use of the Internet might have made me seem more qualified than I am.

This is behavior is really out of character for me, and I really regret my actions. That's why I wanted to let you know what had happened and see how to proceed.

I expect that you will likely revoke my offer with this disclosure, and I absolutely understand that decision (much as I would be disappointed). Alternatively, if you'd like to give me some additional interviews, I would love that opportunity too.

I assure you that, regardless of your decision, this will never happen again with this company or another. I really value ethics in my personal and professional life, and I'm really sorry that I didn't act in accordance with my own standards.

I can't tell you what to do, but I can say that you'll be much prouder of yourself if you decline the offer -- even if you don't confess what you did.

Good luck.


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What's the riskiest thing you have ever done which did not pay off?

Q

Dropped out of college to start a company.

The photo above is of our founders one week before our startup “officially” failed (I’m on the far right).

We were barely-able-to-pay-rent broke.

We worked close to one-hundred hours a week for an entire year.

All we ate was oatmeal, spaghetti, and peanut butter.

Oh, and there was a lot of shitty coffee to fuel us.

We recruited 150 writers, published hundreds of articles, but never figured out how to make enough money.

So, our startup failed.

I learned a lot from this failure:

  1. How to hustle when everyone depends on you
  2. How to have the confidence to cold call hundreds of people every day
  3. How to get in touch with people who can mentor you
  4. And most importantly, how to appreciate failure

So, it’s hard to say it didn’t pay off.

Everything in life is an opportunity to learn.

Every time you hit your head against a wall, there’s a valuable lesson.

Each time you put your all into something, you discover what you’re capable of accomplishing.

It’s remarkable.

And we should all take a chance where at one point we risk everything. It’s worth it.

You’ll learn more about yourself than you could ever imagine.

Dare to be great.


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Thursday, December 29, 2016

What do you feel is the most unpleasant tasting food that others don't?

One day, someone looked at a lovely piece of salmon or tuna and thought ‘I'm going to surround that with metal and leave it there for a couple months, in a watery, salty mess that will cause it to slowly fall apart and become ever so slightly digested in its own enzymes and by bacteria. Then I'm going to eat it.’

And if that doesn't explain why I hate the taste of tinned fish, and why I find the entire concept slightly nauseating, nothing will.



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What is the most inappropriate thing you have been asked to do or have done at work?

In one of my first jobs, in a retirement facility, I was asked by the owner to sign someone else’s name in the book where we document pills that have been passed out. One of the medication aides had called and said she had forgot to sign for things.

It's extremely illegal to sign for someone else in those books, even if you know for a fact that they did pass the pill in question. Not only did I not know for a fact that she had done it, I was also a cook, and had no business being in the med books. I refused to sign, and was suspended for 3 days.

Later, the state was called by a family member that thought something fishy has been going on, and it was discovered that the gal I had been asked to sign for had been stealing narcotics.

I am SO glad I refused to touch that book.



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If you were to get a tattoo (or another one), what would it be?

I have long wanted a tattoo all the way up my side that's a brief history of the evolution of life on earth, starting with RNA molecules on my hip, then DNA molecules, then prokaryotes, then single-cell eukaryotes, then small multicellular creatures, then fish, then the waterline with plants and lizards on the shore, and finally an explosion of birds across my shoulder.

The idea is that as you go from bottom to top you're physically moving up from the ocean to the shore to the sky, but you're also moving forward in time.

I'm still looking for an artist who can do this.



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For 12 hours everyone is allowed to take any illegal action without being incriminated: what would you do?

I’d book a flight ticket, or better, I’d gang up with some tough thugs and hijack a local plane, even a tiny one would work.

I’d then leave Norway (which is where I live) and direct the plane to Paris:

(Putain de merde ! Du caca dans le cul du croissant connard! Or as they say in French / Paris Orly International Airport)

I would then go to the Palace of the Élysée palace:

(So fancy ad so French don’t you agree? / For 48 Magical Hours, Enter Paris’ Hallowed Halls)

And then grab the président, francois hollande, by the neck:

(Considering that he is quite fat, I might ask Paul Letzelter for help too/ Direct Hollande: "Etre Président, c'est vivre avec la tragédie")

And take him to the Museum of Police Prefecture:

(Yep, they do like pompous buildings in France Musee de la Prefecture de Police (Paris, France): Top Tips Before You Go - TripAdvisor)

It is not too long a walk. Maybe an hour or so? A bit more because we’d be carrying fatso but not so bad:

And then?

I’ll introduce him -literally- to the widow. Meet her beauty:

(So classy !divers objets de malfrats - Picture of Musee de la Prefecture de Police, Paris - TripAdvisor)

I guess you can all now what would then happen, right?

(Tasty ! Death Penalty and Political Repression)

This is really the only illegal thing I’d want to do in such a case. And who knows, I might even end up getting a medal afterwards !



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What would you do if your teenager not only wanted to have a baby, but expected YOU to take care of the baby?

I'm a teen mom. Well, not a teen anymore since I've hit 20.
I have an almost two year old. I got pregnant my senior year in high school, at 18. I finished the year 20 weeks pregnant and walked the stage with my small baby bump.
I was the type that I worked 2 fulltime jobs while pregnant. I was a manager at a Starbucks (40 hours), and a waitress at a restaurant (35 hours) a week. I finished my high school degree with advanced placement and 32 college credits under my belt.
I now am 20, single mom, have a full-time benefits job, own my home and I'm double majoring in college as a phlebotomist and business management with a minor in Italian (the company I work for wants me to minor). I work full-time, as I said and I volunteer for my externship to get my paramedic certifications and my phlebotomy licensure. I pay in full for childcare expenses, and receive no child support/help from my ex, or his family.
I have never once EXPECTED my mom to help out with my daughter, but she gladly helps out whenever I need, such as for classes, or when I have to volunteer.
NOW, I have a friend who's 19, with her second child due any day (with a different man), and she doesn't work, doesn't have a GED, parties 99% of the time she doesn't have her daughter (the father & her have a 50/50 custody agreement). Her mom pays all of her bills, all of everything and yet, her mom's EXCITED about having a second grandchild.
So there's easily two types of teen parents in the world. I will raise my daughter to do the same that I've done. Working my butt off to make everything I can for myself, and for my daughter. My mom chose when to have kids. I chose when to have a child [even if she's a surprise, there's always options to whether or not you keep the pregnancy/child.]. She did not choose for me to have a kid, therefore she has no reason to HAVE to raise her.
My opinion though, I guess. Some teens are too immature and view having a baby basically like owning a new handbag. Something they can pick up/put down whenever they want.

EDIT 5/18/16: I apologize for not answering the question in giving the two types of teen parents out there. If my daughter turned out to become pregnant, then expect me to raise the baby, I wouldn't. I'd help her when she needed but I would not raise that baby for her, and let her take the "easy" road. I never relied on my parents, she shouldn't rely on me, except to help when needed.

EDIT 5/18/16: I have, at this current moment, dropped my paramedic certification course, and phlebotomy certifications (labs will interfere with my job) and chosen to set up to try and complete these in the spring semester of 2017, as well as I have taken a break from volunteering so I can work full-time, focus on my business management degree (which will help my full-time job as possible promotions) and focus more on my daughter. I have also begun receiving child support from my ex, as many of you have suggested, and begun to contribute that to the college/emergency fund I have for my daughter.



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