Q. I've heard that veterans don't like hearing "Thank you for your service." Is this true, and if so, what's a better thing to say?
Speaking only for myself:
I am a non-combat veteran of the Korean Conflict. Hostilities ended before I actually reported for active duty.
I spent most of my active service having a (mostly) wonderful time flying airplanes and seeing the world. And I spent my reserve service flying airplanes and making a few bucks every month while I was in school.
It makes me feel awkward or uncomfortable when some person I do not know thanks me for my service, which ended, I must point out, in 1970 —46 years ago.
I would far rather have someone say to me, “You were in the Navy? What did you do?” than “Thank you for your service.” The first indicates some interest. The second is like saying “Gesundheit” when someone sneezes.
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