My children still learn about it historically, Big M will still "celebrate" it at K with their little feast, and whether he chooses to make a construction paper headdress or pilgrim's hat is entirely up to him, and I won't be making him feel any guilty or prideful connotations with whatever he chooses.
There are bigger problems for the Native community to deal with these days than feeling the sting of Columbus Day or the nature of Thanksgiving. If anything, we discuss with our kids how our ancestors were giving and took care of others, and we leave it at that.
What things we really won't celebrate are the conditions on many reservations today, the struggles that Native children face, and the abounding plagues of substance abuse, poverty, and hopelessness. We could sit around and play the blame game all day for these things, but at this point, that's feeding energy into a hopeless cause, and that energy could be spent in far better ways working to advocate, counsel, and heal the many hurts that face many Native communities today.
Disclaimer: I am of Native ancestry (my mother grew up on a reservation in MN, and our native culture was very important to us growing up - we danced in powwows, spent weeks in the summer on the reservation visiting family, etc), but I did not grow up on a reservation. I am one of the minority of closely-tied-to-reservati
I think it's sort of just one more lovely testament to the beauty of the Native culture, to have taken a day that possibly could have a little sting to it and turned it into one more celebration of that which is important to us. And - I'm thankful for it.
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